Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu influencer Malachy Friedman has found himself at the center of a heated debate within the BJJ community after a recent social media post went viral. In the post, Friedman claimed that students lying down during instruction is disrespectful, sparking a widespread discussion about training etiquette and accessibility in BJJ.
Friedman’s initial statement, made in a video reel, asserted that students should not “be the guy that sits on the edge of the mat, far away from the instructors teaching.” He argued that such behavior is not only disrespectful but also sets a bad example for lower-ranking belts if done by higher-ranking practitioners.
However, the BJJ community’s response was swift and largely critical. Many practitioners pushed back against Friedman’s stance, offering numerous reasons why lying down during instruction can be both necessary and beneficial:
- Injury accommodation: Some students may need to lie down due to physical limitations or injuries.
- Improved visibility: Given that BJJ primarily takes place on the ground, lying down can offer a better vantage point to observe techniques.
- Comfort and focus: Adults can often maintain attention regardless of their position, and comfort may enhance their ability to absorb information.
This take counters famous takes from prominent figures in the BJJ. Robert Drysdale, a respected black belt, noted that relaxing in such a manner is part of BJJ culture, even in traditional settings like Japan. Wim Deputter offered a more relaxed perspective, comparing his class to a cinema where students can come as they please, as long as they don’t disrupt others.
The debate has highlighted a divide between stricter, more traditional approaches to martial arts instruction and more relaxed, student-centered methods. Many in the community argue that the only truly disrespectful behavior during class is talking while the instructor is speaking, as it disrupts the learning environment for others.
Friedman’s response to the backlash has drawn further criticism. He reportedly disabled comments on his post, which some view as an attempt to censor discussion around the topic. This action, combined with what some describe as “massive dbag vibes” in his online presence, has intensified the controversy.
To make matters worse, Friedman hasn’t even made it to black belt yet – instead he’s preaching from the platform provided by his online influence.
Many instructors and practitioners advocate for a more flexible approach that considers individual needs and focuses on effective learning rather than rigid adherence to traditional etiquette.
