Rickson Gracie Refused To Speak To His Son For Years After Disobeying His Coaching In The UFC

Kron Gracie has been open about the complicated dynamic between himself and his father, Rickson Gracie, when it came to coaching and combat strategy. In a recent podcast conversation, Kron detailed what it was like having one of the greatest figures in Brazilian jiu-jitsu in his corner, and how their relationship became strained once he started developing his own style.

Rickson relocated to Brazil when Kron was 17, leaving him largely without a full-time coach during a crucial stretch of his career.

“For almost 10 years he was gone,” Kron explained. “So I was running the gym and training under my own. I was my own coach.”

According to Kron, Rickson would still appear around competition time, sometimes showing up during fig ht week or even on the day of the bout itself. But over time, Kron felt the disconnect growing between them.

“As I got older, he became less and less of someone I could take advice from because he was so distant from my everyday training,” he said.

One of the biggest points of conflict between the two centered around striking. After Kron began training with Nick and Nate Diaz and incorporating more boxing into his MMA game, Rickson strongly opposed the direction he was taking.

“He was trying to tell me to not box,” Kron recalled. “I started boxing with Nate and stuff and he’s like, ‘Don’t box. Don’t box.’”

Kron said Rickson preferred a more traditional approach rooted in older MMA and vale tudo styles.

“He’s like, ‘You got to do the front kick like it’s 1995 and clinch,’” Kron said.

But once he started testing those ideas in live situations, Kron felt they were no longer effective against modern athletes.

“I go to do the front kick. He steps back, kicks my leg. It’s not working,” he explained.

Eventually, Kron decided he had to trust his own instincts, even if it meant going against his father’s wishes.

“At a certain point I was like, ‘Dude, he’s tripping and I got to box or else I’m going to get really messed up,’” he said.

Kron continued developing his boxing and saw immediate success with it, but the disagreements with Rickson never fully disappeared.

“If I win, it’s okay for that moment, but then don’t ever do that again,” Kron said while describing the cycle between them.

According to Kron, the tension reached its peak during his match against Cub Swanson, where he relied heavily on striking instead of pursuing takedowns.

“I was boxing him the whole fig ht and I didn’t try to take him down,” Kron said. “My dad didn’t talk to me for a couple years for that.”

Kron described Rickson’s mindset as uncompromising when it came to jiu-jitsu and MMA philosophy.

“It’s an ultimatum with him,” he said. “If you do boxing, we don’t got to talk.”

At the same time, Kron made it clear that he still respected where his father was coming from and understood how deeply Rickson believed in jiu-jitsu.

“He’s stuck in an age where he can’t get over the fact that it’s MMA,” Kron explained. “He’s like jiu-jitsu. There’s no time. But there is time and there is boxing.”

Despite their disagreements, Kron said he holds no resentment toward his father and remains grateful for everything Rickson taught him.

“He did a great job teaching me so much,” Kron said. “The life goes on. We got to still keep doing other things.”